I recently found out that STBx has been having an on-going PA (legally I can't even call it that, but morally it is), found out she took the kids on a cruise to Mexico with OM last summer and had them lie to me that they went to DisneyLand - I'm grappling with this too.
I know you know fb2, but this really is very "low". What's wrong with these people? Dear Lord!!! Very very selfish!! I cant imagine how your kids felt having to lie to you... She just got herself on my voodoo list of Xwives to suffer... K