I wish I had an answer for you. Been separated for 17 months and we are just starting to see each other regularly not the two of us but with kids. I think it's all about the detachment them knowing you're not just going to stop what you're doing and come running when they need something that you've got a life.
Me:40 W: 39 T: 17 years M: 15 years S-9 D-6 D final 11/10/2009
"We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised as insoluble problems."
