I understand the anger. Yours might not be quite that level, but I am pretty sure mine is....it just bubbles under the surface. But volcanoes eventually erupt so I guess I should prepare for that. Hopefully you aren't holding that much in...
I think part of the irritation to me is that they are messing with our minds, intentionally or otherwise. As soon as you have got some peace/distance, they say something to stir up the waters again.
Glad you aren't dwelling on the call, pushing her for more details, etc. Sorry it is affecting your mood anyway.
And I am sure you and Dan would make a lovely couple. He does travel to Canada a lot, I'm just sayin....