I don't know if I want to know what you were suggesting...
The raise is almost double my salary. But his TOTAL income will be almost 6 x mine, if the raise goes through. Obama might hear about it and take it from him first, though
It is funny b/c I was feeling guilty for some reason (don't hit me!) about taking the monthly amount that he wanted to give me for the kids, that is supposed to start April 1. I was going to lower it myself, b/c I have the checkbooks so I am basically writing myself a check from the old account to put into my new account... But if this raise is the real deal then I will have no problem taking that amount...it was more than the lawyer I visited once told me I would get. Of course those numbers would change with the raise, but maybe not since we are 'separated' already? Not legally, but physically...