I keep having the little voice in my head that says what if he is right about me? What if no one else wants me? Am I so awful? kat
Kat, I asked my C the same thing this week!!! When H said no none will ever want me what if he's right? Someone that close to you (well how they used to be) says stuff and it's hard to just blow it off. One thing I think though is if our H's found women to love them (us and OWs) we shouldn't have problems finding someone either. Plus, what kind of person says stuff like that to someone??? I would never even think of saying something like that to a person; we will find more loving Rs in the future I'm sure!!!
You'll both be very -- ahem! -- marketable.
Seriously.
I haven't met either one of you, but just from the way you each write and your values that you express on here, I find it very attractive.