Yep, no lawyers that do free consults in this area. The one I did go to charged $75 and told me that regardless of what the wife had done, she could and probably would get custody if she wanted it. He said that if I fought it, it could cost me up to $20G. He said barring her doing something illegal, the courts decide in favor of the woman 90-95% of the time. His advice was to kiss her ass with the hope of reconciliation and/or a uncontested divorce with me getting what I already have right now--daughter, house, no bill, etc. I will make an appointment at base legal though. Thanks for the info.
M-41 ex-W-40 Together--17 years SS-20 D-14 Bomb--2 Feb 09 WAW--6 Feb 09 Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!! ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!! Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!