Ugh, SLH, I know how you feel. I don't like to get my hopes up either. We have to "Act As If" but what does that really mean? Act as if things will be great, or Act as if he still wants a D, and is leading us on. I love the affection too, but then it leads to more confusion...so then I wonder is the affection good or just making my mind games worse?

Keep up on the track you're going, you're doing really well. Just expect that there will be some type of backlash in the next few days, if it comes you won't be surprised, but if it doesn't then better for you.

I've been expecting one for 2 months, and there hasn't really been one yet. A few "very close calls", where there could have been an argument, but I never let it escalate, but no big backlash, or D talk since 1/15/09. Hope I'm not jinxing it LOL.

Keep up the GALing, you're doing awesome!! Maybe you should join your friend on the shopping trip, not to buy anything, but just so you're definitely unavailable if he asks you to come over.

M:28 H:30
DD-9| DD-7| Baby- Due 11/10
T-14 | M-8

10/08- Bomb
4/09- Failed attempt at Marriage Fitness Program
3/10- WH moved out.
7/10- Informed me he's filing in Aug