Second call I answered. He called to ask why are we always fighting and he doesn't like that we fight so much. I think the call was triggered by me seeing H's friend yesterday to give him a t-shirt I bought from Cali. H's friend likes t-shirts so I decided to surprise him with one. Didn't bring one for H although I did buy some books for his son. H said that he plans on coming home but he knows it will be the same thing. He mentioned that I have problems too. I made mention that I don't want him to come home with me as his 2nd choice. I told him that grandfather (h's grandfather) told me that he said he has to see if things will work out with OW and him. He denied telling that to grandfather. I also asked him what do we always fight about. He said because he's not there at home and then I said when you were there what were we fighting about. Hint hint - OW!!! I also said that I know I haven't handled things the best either and I asked him what are my faults. He didn't answer, said I need to think about things. Bottom line: today its I'm coming home, tomorrow will be I'm not coming home. Whatever. I am still on NC quest for me.
So how is that NC??? ONE phone call and you get into all that R talk???
