I read the forgiveness post last evening and it was very good. I do feel I have forgiven my H - not forgotten - but definitely forgiven, and I feel good about that. I just haven't accepted that I need to forgive her - I don't want to right now. I would rather just forget her!
Thanks for the advise on detaching. I need to do that. Just detach from the situation with her. I can't give her that power over me to feel so tense. She's not going anywhere. I can't help but want to move across the country - but unfortunately she's still going to be in our family. Detaching is what it's got to be.
