25yearsmlc is an attorney and I am a paralegal. But, I will not give you legal advice. I will suggest that you call a couple attorneys and find one that does free initial consultations. They can answer basic questions for you. for that matter, go to base legal--that is a question they can answer for you!
I would suggest finding out if you can file an order for temporary custody and support. I am not sure what the laws are in Florida, as I am in VA and have never studied FL law. Seriously, thoough, make an appointment with legal and have them explain all of your options.
I know, when DH went to base legal last year, they could answer his questions, just could not represent him in anyway. I know he was not happy when he left, as they told him he had no reason for a divorce (he did not tell them about OW, obviously!), he had 4 kids that needed a dad, and that it would devastate him financially, as I have been a supportive wife and he has no grounds. The told him to go to counseling and recommended the base chaplain to him.
Keep your chin up! Spend time with your daughter, take up bowling or teach her how to shoot pool. Have fun together. She is at an age that while she needs a mom, you are going to show her what a husband and father looks like. Model to her what a Godly husband and father is so that she will make the right choices for herself in the future.
Living God's blessings with grace and dignity~ SMW
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Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance. I Corinthians 13:7
