I would say that if you would just go 30 days and actually DB, that you would find tremendous results. She is scared about a lot of stuff, she is more scared than you actually. I swear if you go dark, that she will relight the place. This is not just rah rah either, I have been following your sitch very carefully and I can see by her actions (not her words) that she is in a confused state and trying to find happiness and so far she is failing to do so.
I will try. I am not optimistic at this point but never the less, I will try. It can't hurt, I guess. I guess I'm not seeing where she is scared. Care to tell me where you see that? It might help me cope better. I do believe that she is confused and I hope that she does NOT find happiness in her current sitch! That may be mean but it's how I feel right now at this point in time.
M-41 ex-W-40 Together--17 years SS-20 D-14 Bomb--2 Feb 09 WAW--6 Feb 09 Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!! ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!! Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!
