[/quote]I know dating sounds like fun and doing what your H is doing would help, but I don't think in the long run it would be a healthy positive move or make you feel better about yourself. And I always wonder about the kind of person that you would date, that would date a married person, that wouldn't be the type of person I'd want to date.
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Hi Karen,
Yes, I actually definitely agree with you -- what kind of person would want to date a married woman and what kind of foundation would I start the R out on. What respect would I actually get if he knows that I am already married and still have not gotten over my H. So yeah, that is the main reason I have not dated anyone -- even though I did create a "OM" :). But even that I couldn't go through with feeling guilty and immoral. Can you believe that , guilty over a fake OM (smile). But sometimes, the saying "takes one to forget one" surely does run through my mind. But like I've been praying to God, I want to do things right so that he can send me the right relationship whether its with my H or not.
Thanks for the GALing advice too. I'm been keeping myself busy but I think I need to fill my life with more activities.
