{{Silva}} Yeah please keep us updated on your MIL..I know that has to be worrying you and stinks you really can't just GO to the hospital and/or call her up and find out..argh..that stuff is annoying!! I have to say, one think I was laughing with D18 about is that I ACTUALLY have a better relationship with my inlaws NOW, we keep up in the alt, than I EVER did while I was married..LOL..go figure that one out?! Probably because they feel a bit bad for me..I dunno..

Anyway..I hear what you are saying about not taking back the spouse because I feel the same way. Pearl and I were talking about that just last night and I told her "If my hub came over, cooked me dinner, brought flowers, or whatever, it wouldn't make a difference to me, because he's done too much, I know too much, and I, for myself, could NOT go back to what that was and I'm 1000 times happier now.." But, at the same time, you are right..everyone's sitch is different and no ONE but you knows what is right for your sitch..

Tawnya

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