Hi - I'm curious how does your H handle this? It has to be far worse for him to have to see her on occassion? Does everyone in the family know of the affair?
I think your feelings and reactions are normal. But remember - you are the better person here - she is scum. You have your husband back and sounds as if your marriage is better than ever. Time to ignore her and act as if she doesn't exist. I think you owe your Husband that much since he has recommitted to the marriage, he is sincere in his renewal vows - he and your children is where your focus should be - don't waste energy on her - not worth it!
Have you discussed moving with your husband or is that ludicrous to him?
