The extended business trip seems to be the killer. I also found out shortly after I had a month where I was gone 3 weeks out of 4 - and when I looked back, I found that every time I went away, there was a flurry of IM's
And facebook is a killer - allows the fantasy to build and grow from a distance.
Me 42, W 39, S8, S6, S2 M 11y, A & ILYBNILWY 11/08 Walking away from a bad situation.