I have decided to not make any invitations and just leave it for now. I agree with the comment about having all options covered too. I feel that I have been too available. Also I think he needs time to see what it will really be like if continuing down the path of separation.
H called on sat night said he was not feeling well and everyone at his work is sick too. Asked about my plans for Sunday, I said I am going to nearby city, but left out anything about what I planned to do there. I had never been to this place so it was fun to go. Had a great day out with my friend, really glad I went and enjoyed myself. Will definitely be doing more of this
Next saturday I have a trip planned to visit family for 2 weeks. I am excited about going, especially about seeing my niece and nephew, sister and mom. I have some time off my grad course and with the easter holiday decided to take advantage of it. I feel this may also give me time to really detach from things with H and think about me (as well as have lots of fun :))
H has asked if he needs anything from the house while I am away can he stop by. I have set some boundaries like to let me know first if he will be doing that and also that I dont expect him to use this as a time to move all of his things out of the house just because I am not there.
Me-27 H-28 M-2.5 yrs T-8.5 yrs No kids B 1/09 S 2/09
