K how old is your H? I would watch the money very carefully MY H busted our business..he had secret credit cards even before bomb but at first after bomb, he spent carefully after about 1 year he spent more and more until it was apparent keep your eye on that account I would check it daily or every few days I never thougth my H would spend this way..but the OW dont care and our H want to act like donald trump around them
I was thinking about you im not sure but maybe talk to coach I wonder if your stance should be more availablee right now to your H since he is in therapy not to persue..but to be supportive, appreciative, available,upbeat im not sure they always say go no contact but it so limits showing opur H the other side of the coin how great this new R could be especially if he isnt sure about ow ( instead of limited contact) peace
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow