i have posted before but i will summarize the current situation -

h started an A in 06, came home a year ago this past weekend, to only fall apart and go back to ow. the day he filed for D last june, decided we should think about reconciliation.

ow still around this past year, calling me, taunting me.

H came home this week (the anniversary of last year's return).

was home with me saturday night and then yesterday got alittle quiet and distant which i think is normal.

we live next door to his parents, he decided to stay there last night, said he isnt quiet ready to be home.

i think this is all normal. any advice on how to handle things? i dont want to blow it, but at the same time, i so dont want a repeat of last year where things got ugly.

i do not know at this time the status of ow. is there still contact? most likely via phone.


me: 31
H:29
Son:5
m:8 years in november
t:10 years
first bomb: 10/06
moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08
ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06
d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08
moved home:3/09 out again 5/09