Thanks Belle, Pearl, and Smiley,

My appointment is at 3:30 so I have a little time to edit the letter. Thanks Smiley, so glad to have your opinion and it's duly noted - I will be more careful with the "wounded woman" - it's definitely not what I want. I wish I could find my first thread so you could read it too. His involvement really is extreme - I'm not exaggerating. And early on he told me all about her and their relationship - I didn't need to spy at all. But I'll take another look at it.

I'll check in tonight!


Me 56
H 47
Married 21 years
No children
Bomb & moved out 4/07 "My feelings have changed" & "I want to live by myself".
Ow Bomb 8/07
H filed 6/08
D final 2/05/10