My appointment is at 3:30 so I have a little time to edit the letter. Thanks Smiley, so glad to have your opinion and it's duly noted - I will be more careful with the "wounded woman" - it's definitely not what I want. I wish I could find my first thread so you could read it too. His involvement really is extreme - I'm not exaggerating. And early on he told me all about her and their relationship - I didn't need to spy at all. But I'll take another look at it.
I'll check in tonight!
Me 56 H 47 Married 21 years No children Bomb & moved out 4/07 "My feelings have changed" & "I want to live by myself". Ow Bomb 8/07 H filed 6/08 D final 2/05/10