WAW/Affair Confirmed - Advice? #2

[DCBHM]

I believe she knows you are taping her and gathering evidence. She won't admit to anything. She will say it is only a friendship, and she has her family backing her on that so she doesn't lose her child. You may have this evidence, but can she say that it has always been a friendship? Because that is what she is planning on doing.

She should know by now. She can say whatever she wants - she told her family on Saturday that she was going to visit the guy's mom and was at his house all day. But I ran into the guy's mom at Wal-Mart and she had her whole family there minus OM and W. So... that chance encounter knocks a big hole in that alibi.

I'm sure she is planning on calling it a friendship - but she has been 'friends' with the neighbors since before we married in 2006, and she has been 'friends' with OM since March 2008 or so. It didn't become 'inappropriate' in my view until Fall 2008, but I did witness him sneaking out the back of my house on December 29, and when I confronted her she dropped the D-bomb.

Going to try and get her cell phone records and show a pattern of calls prior to our S as well - because I've got a long list of things I'll testify to that show an inappropriate relationship going a way back before the S.

And if it was a friendship... have the P.I. caught her on tape leaving my house, ditching her car 2 miles down the road, and riding back with OM to his house and spending the night. Then being filmed/witnessed kissing at the dropoff.

This was like 4 days after I had been served with D-filing.

MIL still even with proof will just say its after the fact. What is the purpose now in trying to catch them when you appear to be divorcing?

Out of all the people in the world... she just so happens to meet and start dating my next door neighbor after we start the Divorce process? Even a 4-year old won't buy it. She can try to pretty it up with the "just friends" argument, but I've got too much.

I'm sure her attorney wouldn't have advised her to spend the entire weekend at OM's house - regardless of whether they were 'just friends'.

All the evidence I'm collecting show that it is an ongoing relationship - because I am going to tie OM's character around her neck while going for custody.