Hello T,


Originally Posted By: Tostada
I'd like to talk to her and fill in the blanks.

This is good in a sense cos I know that if I was in your postion I would want to fill in all the blanks.

Originally Posted By: Tostada
I'd also like to help her nail him to the cross.

Well by all means help nail him to the cross but the down side to that is that it drags you down into their murky world (W & OM) longer than you need to be there. Ultimately if W has moved on with this sleezbag, then you'll need to move on with your life. Don't let then anger and the hurt drive your future, let some of it out, then start to focus on where you want to go.

Lanzo

PS: hope you have some success in finding a job.