Nah, were full on sir, but it's very complicated her side. She wants it a secret still for a while for a few reasons. It's hard to explain without people thinking why ??? and I do still a bit but just being supportive as primarily she is protecting her kids. Some might say I'm being the 'OM' as he still isn't over it all, but we met 3 months after they split and she had only been with him for the previous 4 years as wasn't strong enough to leave. They've had no relationship for 4+ years.
I hope it will come out soon tho as sneaking around a bit isn't ideal and there are a lot of small world stories coming out through people we both know as she was a year older than me at school, thos she left, but we have common groups of people we know.