Stepping out and Stepping UP!

[TRUSTING]

Cagz,

When the Ml'ers withdraw, that is when they grow the most.
Let him be, don't call him for things. He needs to come to you.
I really feel that when we pull them back in our lives, it slows down their progress.

I know you miss him Cagz, I know you love him Cagz. I know how bad it hurts.

They have to hurt too in order to grow and come out of their tunnel.

I was thinking about something today. A long time ago, when my ex was just starting his crisis. He said that we would be friends forever. Funny how that did not happen. He said one day we would all vacation together again, him and OW and me and a new boy friend. No way would he ever be able to handle that!!!
I was just thinking about how what they say never matches what actually happens. They are so messed up....