I'm so sorry about your brother, perhaps all is not lost, I pray this isn't the case. And for that to have happened it must've taken a lot more than (if ti happened that way) stbx's sister meddleing. Anyways, my prayers their way.

Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2

30something
2kids
survivor of S, MLC, A, D
I have peace in my heart, at last.