You have to demand the "no transparency" plan for anything to happen. She may have been feeling you out....coming clean and working through everything she has done will be far harder than claiming God has "spoke to her" and bailing on the marriage is what He wants.
Puppy is right. Everything she said would be totally normal if she is still in contact.
I do remember the past posts you have posted about her, and I do know she has many psychological issues. I'll send another prayer your way.
