Had a decent weekend. I am continuing to realize how little time I have left before deploying and how much I have to get done... and that's without any kind of legal action with from a D! I wish I could fast forward and know the end result from this mess :-)

No further communication from my H this weekend. I am guessing he's still in game playing mode and is "withholding" any communication until I pick up the D papers. My bet is it lasts until he again asks me to pick up the papers tomorrow. Haha! It's hysterical he believes his game will change my course of action. I hope he realized how silly he's being....

I am very much as peace with everything right now. I have a lot of work to keep me busy and have some fun trips & events to enjoy before deploying. Our M is very important but is completely out of my control and will play out with time. I would love to enjoy everything with my H but am very happy without him also :-)

Me:28, first M
H: 33, second M
Married: 08/08
Bomb: 10/08
H filed D and deployed: 12/08
Served: 04/09
I deploy: 07/09
Hearing date: 08/09