So I gave her a call and she says no, I said I would call you. No she didn't say that. Ok, she gets mean and says look, I don't know why you want to keep going over this. I said, look you're the one that keeps on with the I love you and don't want a divorce. She said you sound like your 12. IT's over, just leave me alone! I said I have left you alone. She said then continue to do so. I don't f$#@ing need this. I said, so much for being civil. She said the only thing I want you to call me about from now on is our daughter and she needs to call me. I said, no you need to call her, you're the one that left. She said that's fine, I'll shut off both your phones. Ok, I said, that's fine. She said she needs to spend the weekends with me. I said you haven't coordinated that. She said I shouldn't need to. I said well, I'm not a mind reader. She said don't make me say it. I said go ahead, say it, you're a cruel person anyway for doing what you've done. I said especially with what you said about doing something so bad that God wouldn't forgive you and then just leaving it hanging like that. She said I wish I wouldn't have told you that. I said, well you did, so why don't you just tell me what you did. She said that's none of your business. I said it is my business, you're my wife. She said, no its not. She said don't f$%^ing call me anymore unless it's about daughter and F#$( you and hung up.

Ok, know I'm officially done DBing. Now I'm just feeling nasty. Now I'm not going to answer the phone at all if its her. She can leave a message if its about my daughter. I need to get this cruel woman out of my head, out of my mind and out of my heart. I cannot live like this anymore for a person that just doesn't care about me.

Mel, I took my ring off and will not put it back on. I am moving on for real. I cannot believe the cruel person that my wife has become. She has lied to me for so long. Enough is enough.

Last edited by AFWAW; 03/30/09 02:36 AM.

M-41
ex-W-40
Together--17 years
SS-20
D-14
Bomb--2 Feb 09
WAW--6 Feb 09
Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!!
ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!!
Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!