MLC is a developmental stage usually occuring in all people between ages 35 and 50 (give or take a few years)( there may be exceptionsas some go this life phase earlier or later.. while some people transition through Mid life without leaving their spouses and destucting their lives, others do not It may have something to do with that persons childhood and previous unresoved issues; or previous developmental stages a person goes through, or maybe has not fully gone through properly like adolesence MLC may been started before bomb or after a dealth or trumatic event in the past year before bomb From my understanding, once a person goes in MLC, they begin this journey It seems complex and has something to do with reliving their youth..not acceoting death ,sorting through unresolved issues of past seems once in it, It cant be stopped and it lasts 2-7 years stages include denial anger replay depression withdrawal acceptace MLCers seem to want to keep one foot in each world many of them do not file for D b/c they are unsure MLC resourses explain more the MLcer usually has an A spends huge amounts of money may start dressing younger dying hair
A WAS is a person who is not in a developemental stage or crisies and decides thaey want out of their M many of these will file immediately after bomb this is my take on it peace
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