Well....not necessarily...all I can offer is that the thought process SC was documenting and laying bare for all to see, was similar to the one I believe my W had experienced...it made me realise that I was a long way behind her and that my attempts at romance / wooing at that stage would unlikely be met favourably - indeed - every time I did they were met with hostility.
When I read SCookies post I understood why.
I definitely took from it a realisation that things were going to take a long time and that there was not going to be an easy fix! Most certainly- in my case, not a fix that involved a couple of months of changes - more like a couple of years of changes! It also woke me up to all the attempts that my W has made along the way - but that I had been blind to.
Like I say - it was the dawning of realisation for me - I will try to find my posts just after SCookies to illustrate...
