That's it - when SC posted it - that was the first time I gained any true insight into my W's actions and thoughts ...although likely the background etc was different - when I read it I also cried - as did a lot of men here I think - SC posted from the heart - and continues to do so... the bravery she showed by posting that has helped an awful lot of people to understand previously unfathomable things and to open themselves to the possibility that they are more than culpable in the situations in which they find themselves in - it certainly had a profound impact on me...
Of all the posts I have read on this board - that stands out as the most significant for me.
