Note from ex:

I will say that your procastination with the taxes is unconscionable
and will cost us both money. You have never done the taxes and you
slowed the divorce for the last year due to you processing problems.
Given my present state after surgery and the time urgency, I suggest
you contact my attorney on Monday to resolve your tax concerns.


I read that note and remember the life I had with him. I was always wrong. It's my fault.

I wasn't aware until recently that he wanted me to do the taxes.. or rather, me to find someone to do the taxes. My 'procrastination' is trying to find a tax accountant who is aware of the deduction his lawyer recommended. So far, none are. I finally found the IRS publication and am wary of submitting anything that does not follow the requirements exactly.

I HAVE done the taxes, for years until ex decided he liked doing TurboTax. I was good at doing them the old fashioned way, too!

My 'processing problems' were a direct effect of the head injury. If ex hadn't changed lawyers (to get the most money possible) the divorce would have been done in the fall for significantly much less money.

Ex noted that he was having a minor surgical procedure last Friday. I don't know why I would talk to his lawyer. It feels like driving the wrong way on a highway.

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Well.. that's my whining...

The appropriate thing to do is....

is...........

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thinking.. thinking..

Define my boundaries.. go from there.

*hugs*

Crap.. I think I'm still whining!