Dan's personality being what it is, you are right, once I file, that will most likely be the end of it. That is why I am not doing it yet. Waiting until we do our taxes (we are going to do them in Kansas City next Monday, that will be a fun drive), get the money back, and go on our Disney Trip the first week of June. So I have about 10-12 weeks until I do it.
I don't know if he will come begging or not. But I do know that this weird thing we have going is only hurting me as much as I thought it was giving me hope.
For instance he came over today when we got home from church, I had everything out to make sandwiches. He went and got plates, made the kids' plates, made his, and then asked me what I wanted on my sandwich and made my sandwich for me. He has not made a plate for me, well, EVER, I think. He will make his and the kids and get a plate out for me and leave it by the food. Or I will make my plate and the kids and leave him out a plate. It was just weird. WTF. And when I told him and the kids to have fun seeing the calf, he said, "I thought you said you were coming out, too." Why would he care?