Friday evening...H ended up calling me around 7pm. I had already left for dinner & a movie (alone!). When he called I casually invited him to join and he agreed. As I was walking into sushi restaurant, ran into friends so had fun catching up with them. H showed up and we had a very nice evening. Male friend mentioned how good I look now (that felt good) sine 25lb weight loss! Got home early and ML (again). I wonder should I have not answered H's call at 7? Wasn't very mysterious of me to answer that call was it?
Saturday...both went to separate gyms, then met up at S18s game. He pitched an awesome game. Great outing! After, H said he was going to work, but then instead decided to join me and other baseball friends for lunch. Later he went to work, gym again and then came home in time to have dinner and play cards with our closest friends. Nice evening all in all. Going through the motions though?
Today...highly unusual...H not super anxious to get out the door at 5am to go to the gym. I would say this morning was almost like the old days. Coffee, paper, acoustic radio, etc...very nice a.m.
Things that seem to be working in my DB efforts: 1) No nagging (where were you?, why so late?) 2) Trying to look nicer at all times 3) Being less predictable...going out alone for coffee, etc.
Still...since he was the one who said he would be moving out at some point, it is hard not to bring that up. I feel like it is the "big elephant in the room". From what I have read in DR, don't bring up the relationship now. But when then?
