MyKids: I'm so sorry that you are in this sitch. Have you read either DB or DR yet? If you have, which practices have you implemented? Has your H been served yet, and what has been his reaction to this turn of events? Is he someone that you can sit down with and talk about your feelings on this subject?
I can tell you that trust is one of the hardest things to re-establish after the devastation of learning about your partners' A. A really good book on the subject is "Not Just Friends", by Shirley Glass. It helps put the feelings you have in perspective, and gives some guidance about how to not be so obsessive. Remember: you control your thoughts; doing DB activities like GAL and maintaining a PMA and acting "as if" will help you deal with these problems.
God bless.
Me40 WAW37 M18 T20 S18,14 D13 EA Bomb 6/08 Sep 11/20/08 Ret 08/09 Sep/Filed 11/09
