Thanks Kassie,

I appreciate your support and advice. I may add more about the house but I was trying to keep it to one page - short and to the point so the mediator can read it and quickly grasp the situation.

I don't know how I can avoid mentioning the OW or if I really should? The extent of his involvement with her is EXTREME and he's lost all sense of responsibility. I feel like the mediator needs to know this.

Thanks again Kass.

I would also like to hear from some oldtimers. Puppy, Gucci, are you out there?


Me 56
H 47
Married 21 years
No children
Bomb & moved out 4/07 "My feelings have changed" & "I want to live by myself".
Ow Bomb 8/07
H filed 6/08
D final 2/05/10