She's disordered, Tom. She's not in a fog. She's not going to change. THIS is who you married; this is who she's always been. She just couldn't stand it that you were comfortable moving on without her and had to pull this crap..come closer so I can reject you.
She has always been this way; you are correct. That's why all the changing stories are a tip-off to me that she hasn't changed. I think she's just trying to keep me on her good side for whatever fits her agenda. I have my suspicions that it's just cake-eating; 'cause she even mentioned that and in those exact terms.
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I am actually glad it happened quickly.
I am too; that's why I asked for the date so soon. Better sooner than later. I knew that she had been going to Church with this guy and that's why I offered to meet her there. She accepted; but I knew that she would never go through with it. I suspect that if I had never initiated to meet her there; she would never had brought all this up last night. But as the night wore later and she realized that the time for us to meet at Church was approaching; She came out with all this stuff. After she was done; she commented on how the pit was gone out of her stomach and that she had diarrhea all day long because of it. So my guess is that she didn't want OM to see us there together.
Thanks for your support BW. and I'll be looking for that link.
