Thanks for the feedback. She has always been scatter brained about stuff like that. She is now thinking that I am doing things to sabatoge her. I have taken it to mean that she feels guilt over how she is conducting her life and since she is lying and going behind my back with an OM, she is paranoid about everything that I do. A guilty mind assigns guilt to others.

Any feedback on the wife filing thread above? I don't want to blow this one, but need to have an idea of what this means to my DB'ing...