She's disordered, Tom. She's not in a fog. She's not going to change. THIS is who you married; this is who she's always been. She just couldn't stand it that you were comfortable moving on without her and had to pull this crap..come closer so I can reject you.
I'm going to disagree with Puppy and anyone else who thinks this is script from a WAW or affair. This is script for a personality disorder. I held my breath during this past week..I couldn't even bring myself to post anything...because I felt like this would happen. I am actually glad it happened quickly.
My advice, which feel free to take or leave of course, is to focus on protecting yourself and getting as informed as possible on raising kids with someone pathological.