It is interesting that it took your H to say a few things that resembled a normal relationship to make you come to the "green" conclusion. To make you have an epiphany of sorts. What is so frustrating to me is to read other sitches and be so clear and yet in our own we struggle so much. I say this to all the people I have been following for a while, my only concern at a certain point is for the well being of the LBS. I can't help but think that we all perhaps stop DBing when we maybe should be really working harder. Especially the GAL part. Not neccesarilly to get our spouses back but for ourselves and to move on. Anyhow, I hope you have a nice Sunday BBJ.
