In Limbo!?

[PortlandDad]

Hurtin:
One thing to remember about DBing is that it is for YOU, not necessarily for your spouse. Because we really can't control anyone else, the core principles of DB are focused on helping us deal with the changes that our families are going through, and emerge as stronger, healthier, and more confident people on the other side. Along the way, we become more attractive to our wayward spouse, and hopefully, get a chance to effect some positive changes in the R.

No matter what happens in your M, the tenets of PMA and GAL are for us! Focus on yourself and your kids. It sounds like they might need some "come to mama" time to talk and get out what they are thinking, too.