Thank you Searching for confirming my idea on the possibility of a mid life crisis. I did check out the MLC forum and definitely see some similarities. H does seem pretty convinced the only answer to all of his issues is to get rid of me. He is very unhappy in his job, to the point of saying he is not sure he has the mental capacity to keep the job. He seems to be just wandering through life right now with no direction. He has just walked away from our home as if none of it ever mattered. It seems as if he has even disconnected himself somewhat from our kids. About two weeks after the bomb was dropped, we found out we are going to be grandparents for the first time, and he seems minimally (at the most) interested in how our daughter in law is doing with tht pregnancy, etc. He has taken only the bare minimum of his clothing to his parents house. But that seems to be enough for him. The relationship between his parents, him, me and our children is a story for another post, I guess. It seems so difficult to continue DB when we have no opportunities to be together. And he doesn't email text or use the phone!
M 48 years old WAH 49 years old T35 years /M29 years S26 D22,D17 Bomb 12/08 "I have wasted 30 years of my life" Moved out 1/09