Based on my fogged conversation with W yesterday, and based on the fact that her family is enabling her A and thus is a de-facto condonation of the A, I have no choice but to focus on custody, going through with the D, and continuing in GAL and moving on.
I will be working with my therapist for a bit at least in trying to keep the door to reconciliation cracked. But at this point, W is flaunting her A in my face by spending the entire day at his house next door, half-way admitting to the A and then backtracking when I ask her directly with a "just friends" answer.
Anyone have any advice, or seem like I'm doing what I can do? I recorded her conversation and it is just astonishing how she basically admits to the A, and then backtracks a few minutes later saying "no I was just talking about being friends."
"You can't reason someone out of a position they didn't reason themselves into."
