It's been a good weekend in general. I've been trying to keep my PMA and am succeeding in most ways I think. On Friday I enjoyed my family gathering at my Mum's house. Yesterday I went shopping with my sister and her daughter and grabbed some lunch. There were a lot of laughs and it was an enjoyable time. Last night I went to visit an old school friend of mine to discuss mountain biking. I think we're going to keep in touch regularly regarding it and will probably set up some kind of club in the summer. The plans are for some trips to some of the best mountain biking trails in Scotland. Something to really look forward to.
Today I got up feeling refreshed and went to pick up Wee Man to take him swimming. He's not been for a while and was quite nervous about it at first. He soon got better though and started to enjoy himself. I then took him to my house where we played with the dog for a bit before taking him back to my W.
My W has been quite pleasant and we gossiped for a bit. I think with a bit of work I could possibly build this in to a good friendship. That's where my DB coach says I have to go first so it's a large goal to work on. I just want to reduce any negative feelings between us so far as I can. It's time for me to stop taking life so seriously and show my W that I can be a fun person and hopefully make her want to have fun with me and Wee Man. I'm sure it's going to take a fair amount of time but let's face it, it's not like I'm going anywhere.
The only cloud in my life at the moment is that I have to go back to work tomorrow. I'm getting Wee Man on Monday and Tuesday this week though so that should make up for it.
Kev
Me: 32, Wife: 22 Son: 2 Married: 2 years Separated: January 5th 2009
Sometimes you have to become lost before you can find yourself.