My choice in this matter is for the OW to screw up. I can't control what H does. I cannot control what OW does. I can only control myself.
So I am going to control myself, to control my temper, to enjoy and make the most of my life, to be a great Mom and daughter. And I am going to let OW do herself in.
I am going to the best that I can be and let H see me better than ever before.
All affairs end eventually. My H is an excitment seeking person. I already saw the signs of fighting between him and OW recently, he came home crying one morning. A few more of those and my H will be wondering what he has gotten himself into. Me, I am going to show him the confident, busy, beautiful mother to his kids. HE can decide whether to decide to take a second look at me or not.
I really don't think I have to do very much other than the stuff I am doing for myself. I am done with causing drama. I know he is seeing her so why make a fuss about it?? It's a given!
Me:39 H:40 S:9 D:7 First Bomb ONS:June 07 Second Bomb OW: March 08 Separated: March 08 M:15 yrs T:18 yrs H deep into A with OW Achieved ACCEPTANCE May 30, 09
