WAW - Very confused and devastated - pt 6

[confusedinpa]

Maybe I misread something earlier, but I thought you understood that already? That's what you kept posting. I guess you FINALLY reached the compassion level. The level when you REALLY understand what she's going through. You were able to act according to what she needed.

Good job.

"I did also ask if she would try to make sometime for us after she moved out."

Don't ask her this again. You're pursuing. Let her be the one to come to you.

Otherwise great job and keep it up!

I had thought she was just mad/angry. I know that is part of the hurt scenario, but she, at least today, seemed genuinely hurt still. I saw that in her face and felt it in my heart

I wound up asking her about making time for us as about 6 weeks after we started dating she wanted to slow things down (we were seeing each other every day since we met). I told her that was fine with me as long as she still made time for us. She said yes. That pause lasted 1 day.

We were talking about that so that's how it came up. I did tell her that I would respect her space when she moved and let her decide when she was ready. Probably a wrong move, but didn't want her to think I was giving up.

The journey contines

Thanks for the checking in and all the support