Just got back from church tonight - and what do you know?? It's a message on how to close the door to D. He used a funny analogy of the 4 horsemen of the apocalypse to talk about the 4 behaviors that can contribute to a D (criticsm, defensiveness, contempt, stonewalling) and how to fix them. It also had some good points about the D stats continue to rise with each M etc... It was very informative and entertaining. How I wish my H could have been there!
I am tempted to get a copy and mail it to H overseas - but am unsure of his response. Would this been seen at pursuing behavior?
Me:28, first M H: 33, second M Married: 08/08 Bomb: 10/08 H filed D and deployed: 12/08 Served: 04/09 I deploy: 07/09 Hearing date: 08/09
