Silver Fox, I hope to be helpful and supportive... Hi, just catching up... IMO, I would not mention the OW and stick to talk about your R or how it changed. (Evidence of abandonment, or neglect of M duties, etc.)I think I would clean up the part about the house - prior agreements - like how it was purchased, plans to rehab it - what was accomplished or not of that plan - committments made about the plan to fix it up, like who would be available when etc. Maybe some estimates on what it would cost. I am also wondering if your statement to "end contact" would exhibit agreement to D without any intention otherwise.(please excuse me if I misread that one)
