Divorced - It's only a piece of paper but I am sad

[glamgirl]

TL absolutely I would send your h a loving e-mail. He is your XH and there is nothing wrong with stating your true feelings if that is how you are feeling.

Something along the lines of XH I too am very sorry that we are D. You know too that is not what I wanted. I wish things could be different and we could go back in time.

I am very sorry that you think that all I was thinking of was finances and it was all about me. I can see how you came to that conclusion. I am truly sorry that it comes across that way, but that was not my intent.

I only wish you the best XH. Yada yada yada.

You see TL how you can turn the situation into something better. When you are the better one and hang onto NO bitterness or resentment you are able to forgive and let go and move on.

It is not easy, but I think it is truly a better way. It allows you to move on from the past and your soul is free.