ANew and BH thanks for your input. Tomorrow won't work, since I actually have to work, but you are both right my life needs to change and for the better or I will be sitting here a year from now saying the same thing. BH I have nothing to lose.

BH I am so motivated to lose 10 pounds. Not for my h, but for me. I really like how my clothes are fitting now that I have been working out. I will make plans for me, not for my h and change things up.

I think I will take the kids to the gym tonight. It's a great way to spend time with them and I get a work-out in too.

Thanks for that outside perspective. Sometimes you are just so close to the situation that you can't see the forest for the trees.


Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"