Is the timeline in your own case for just the big D or are you also trying to settle the custody issue as well? If the latter, that would explain why yours might be taking longer.
I predict we'll have no problems with custody, he is having them one night a week and one day on the weekend. I would like to modify that to him having maybe every weekend or 3 weekends out of the month instead b/c he leaves the kids alone the morning they're at his place. But generally he wants them not that much, and if he wanted more I'm fine with that too, but pre-separation he spent 10 hours or less a week with them and that's plenty for him with his job, running, and OW.
Where we disagree is the homeschooling vs. public school and he wants me to work full-time so he can reduce or maybe cut out most of alimony to me. Basically $$$ is the big thing for him. Karen
Karen
